Is there a citable quote from The Lovely Bonesthat describes the theme? (Grief, family and relationships, etc.) I must have a quote to describe the...

The one
thing that occurs to me is the first chapter.  There is so much in this one chapter that ties
into the themes of the book. 

The man who murdered Susie offers his
condolences to her mother and Susie who is in her heaven by this time tells the
reader...